Woman Blocks Man Following Their 1st Date in Which He Paid for Their $500+ Dinner

A woman blocked a man after their first date didn’t go as expected.

She felt he violated her privacy and tested her financial capability.

She posted her narrative on Reddit and sought validation from the community regarding her actions.

Many women have first-date horror stories to share, with most being posted online.

One woman shared an unforgettable experience with a man as they dined in an expensive restaurant of her choice.

After he paid their entire bill, she blocked him and refused to give him another chance.

When the woman was first asked by the man on a date, she had no initial thoughts on where their dinner would be.

However, when the man asked about her favorite restaurant, she was honest in naming an expensive establishment.

She made it clear that the dishes in the restaurant were pretty pricey and that they could dine somewhere more casual.

She suggested a Mexican restaurant with great food for a better price.

Meanwhile, her favorite restaurant would have cost them $500 on average.

Given the price range, the man still opted to dine at the woman’s favorite restaurant as he really wanted to try the food.

The woman’s first dates were often in more casual places. She would only dine in her favorite restaurant during special occasions, celebrations, or times when she wanted to treat herself.

She finds that the restaurant isn’t as necessary on the first date, given she is more interested in knowing the man’s personality and life story than satisfying her stomach.

The duo ordered appetizers, main courses, and drinks on the evening of the date. They had a good conversation and even ordered dessert. The woman knew the bill would be expensive, and when it came, they both offered to split the bill. She said:

“I hesitated and said it after he was saying it because he asked me out and also insisted we went there after he read the menu and really wanted to try the food.”

The woman would usually ask for separate checks during first dates, thinking the man may be unsure if he would pay for the meal of a woman he wasn’t interested in. When the separate bills came, the woman placed her card on the table, and so did the man.

When the server came to take their cards, the man grabbed her card and said he would cover both checks. Then he looked at her card and said, “Oh, now I finally know your last name.”

As he said this, a different thought ran through the woman’s head. As a bartender, she deals with transactions and cards on the job and has a co-worker who quickly memorizes numbers. Such could lead to a felony or fraud.

Meanwhile, she was also annoyed by the man changing his mind and deciding to pay for both checks. She suspected he was playing mind games with her, presumably to see if she would pay half the bill of $250. “I felt like he was checking to see if I was a golddigger or something, even though I’d literally told him we shouldn’t go there the first date,” she said.

She thanked him after dinner, went home, and blocked him. According to the woman, his looking at her card ticked her off, especially since she did not want to tell him her last name.

After reading comments on her Reddit post, the woman sent the man money for her part in the bill. She reiterated that she did not force the man to eat in the restaurant and would have enjoyed a simple Mexican dinner instead. She has since learned her lesson.

Many Reddit users sided with the woman and claimed she had every right to cut off a man who made her feel uncomfortable. However, some believed that she was overthinking the situation.

“Also, I highly doubt someone would spend $500+ and waste an entire evening so they could memorize your card number,” one comment read. Others also believed that the woman should have paid half of her bill before blocking him so she wouldn’t look like she was only dating him for the free dinner.

Related Posts

TRUMP’S NEW PLAN IS SHOCKING AMERICA

Parents are stunned. Economists are furious. And from kitchen tables to cable news, everyone is asking the same question: what happens if this actually passes? Trump’s surprise…

Prayers Pouring in for Kai Trump, Family Issues Quiet StatementPrayers Pouring in for Kai Trump, Family Issues Quiet Statement

Everything shattered in a heartbeat. One moment, she was just an 18-year-old girl with her whole life ahead of her – the next, she was curled in…

Letting your gray hair go natural often reflects a deep psychological shift toward self-acceptance, authenticity, and emotional maturity. It can symbolize freedom from social pressure, confidence in one’s identity, and a desire to age honestly without hiding changes. Many people view this choice as an empowering statement of self-worth, inner peace, and a healthier relationship with time and personal growth.

The first silver strand feels like a warning. Then comes the mirror, the panic, the quiet calculation: hide it, or let the truth show. For decades, dye…

A WARNING FROM THE SPEAKER

The warning came like a political thunderclap. In the frantic hours to avert a shutdown, Speaker Mike Johnson says Democrats tried to slip a massive healthcare change…

An old cowboy entered a church

One Sunday morning an old cowboy entered a church just before services were to begin. Although the old man and his clothes were spotlessly clean, he wore…

My Daughter Spent the Weekend at Grandma’s — Then She Whispered, ‘I Have a Brother Here, But It’s a Secret’

After a peaceful weekend at her grandma’s house, my daughter said something that froze me in place: “My brother lives at Grandma’s, but it’s a secret.” We…

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *