Built It Myself: What Happened When My Husband Refused to Assemble the Crib

Nine months pregnant and desperate to prepare the nursery, Eloise grew increasingly frustrated as her husband,

Tom, kept pushing off one simple task: assembling the baby’s crib. Each time she asked, he muttered, “I’ll do it tomorrow.”

But tomorrow never came.Finally, weary of waiting and feeling completely alone, Eloise dragged the heavy box into the nursery by herself.

The instructions were confusing, the parts unwieldy, and every movement sent a jolt of pain through her back.

Tom sat nearby, scrolling on his phone, offering no help—only a halfhearted, “You didn’t have to do that,” when he noticed what she was doing.

By the time she tightened the last screw, Eloise was drenched in sweat, sore, and on the verge of tears.

But it wasn’t just physical exhaustion—it was the deeper pain of realizing she couldn’t rely on the person who was supposed…

Nine months pregnant and desperate to prepare the nursery, Eloise grew increasingly frustrated as her husband,

Tom, kept pushing off one simple task: assembling the baby’s crib. Each time she asked, he muttered, “I’ll do it tomorrow.” But tomorrow never came.Finally, weary of waiting and feeling completely alone, Eloise dragged the heavy box into the nursery by herself.

The instructions were confusing, the parts unwieldy, and every movement sent a jolt of pain through her back.

Tom sat nearby, scrolling on his phone, offering no help—only a halfhearted, “You didn’t have to do that,” when he noticed what she was doing.

By the time she tightened the last screw, Eloise was drenched in sweat, sore, and on the verge of tears.

But it wasn’t just physical exhaustion—it was the deeper pain of realizing she couldn’t rely on the person who was supposed to be her partner.

The crib wasn’t the problem. The problem was the pattern.So she made a choice. Determined to make Tom feel the weight she’d been carrying, Eloise invited friends and family over for a baby shower—and told Tom he’d be handling it all. The planning, the setup, the food, the logistics.

As the day unfolded, Tom stumbled through the chaos—forgetting supplies, burning appetizers, scrambling to hang decorations while answering the door.

By the end, he was a mess of stress and apologies. After the guests left, Eloise didn’t sugarcoat it. She told Tom plainly: this is what she’d been going through—alone.

That parenting wasn’t a spectator sport, and neither was marriage.

For the first time, Tom listened. Really listened. He apologized—not with excuses, but with humility.

And Eloise, still exhausted but hopeful, gave him a chance to show he could do better.Because raising a child isn’t a solo act. It’s a partnership. And Eloise had no intention of doing it alone.

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