Yesterday, I had to call off work unexpectedly to take my mom to urgent care.
She wasn’t feeling well, and her symptoms had come on suddenly.
I didn’t want to risk waiting, so I canceled my day and rushed her to the clinic.
While sitting in the waiting room, my heart raced as I kept glancing over at her.
She tried to smile, insisting she’d be fine, but I could see the worry in her eyes.
Just then, my phone buzzed. It was a message from my boss. “I’m disappointed in you,” it read.
Confused, I stared at the screen, thinking maybe there had been a mistake.
But then another message popped up: “Your parents aren’t that old.
Mine were in their 80s and didn’t bother me unless it was an ambulance situation.”
My jaw dropped. My boss wasn’t just upset — he was belittling the importance of my mom’s health.
I sat there, trying to calm my anger, as my mom leaned against me, tired and scared
. In that moment, his words felt like a slap in the face. I took a deep breath and typed carefully, my hands trembling:
“I’m sorry you feel that way, but my mom needed me today.
Family emergencies don’t have an age requirement. I can always find another job, but I’ll never get another mom.”
After hitting send, I turned my phone face down and focused on my mom. A few minutes later,
the nurse called her name, and I walked with her into the exam room.
Thankfully, after some tests, we learned her issue was treatable and nothing life-threatening. Relief washed over me as I realized I’d made the right choice by being there.
When we got home later that evening, I checked my phone.
There was no response from my boss. Maybe he was angry, or maybe he was thinking about what I’d said.
Either way, I didn’t regret my decision. Work is replaceable — promotions, paychecks, and even titles come and go.
But family? They are irreplaceable. That day taught me an important lesson: some people see their job as their whole world, but for me, my family will always come first. And if my boss couldn’t understand that, then maybe it was time to find a workplace that did.
