When my father-in-law screamed, “Did you forget whose house you’re living in?” over a spilled mop bucket, something inside me broke.
I’d spent a full year scrubbing his floors, cooking meals no one thanked me for,
and folding laundry that wasn’t mine.
All while my husband, Nathan, promised “soon” we’d have our own place.
It started with compromise: “Let’s live with my parents to save money,” Nathan said.
“It’ll be quick.” I said yes. We moved into his childhood bedroom,
a museum of plastic-covered furniture and cold glances from his mom.
But the worst part? His father, who never once called me by name.
He criticized everything — how I walked, cleaned, spoke. So I stayed quiet.
Kept scrubbing. Kept cooking. Kept hoping. Then one morning, after mopping the kitchen — again — he stomped in with muddy boots,
knocked over the bucket, and snapped. “You haven’t swept the floors once since you got here!”
I stood there, drenched and furious. “Who do you think’s been cleaning this house every day?
The ghost of housekeepers past?” I said. A year of silence poured out of me.
“I’ve scrubbed your toilets, folded your wife’s underwear, and made you Sunday dinners — and still I’m just ‘her’ to you.”
Nathan watched in silence. That was the worst part. That night, I gave him a choice: One week to move out, or I move out alone.
By morning, he remembered a vacant family cottage — funny how that worked. We moved out that weekend.
His father hasn’t spoken to me since. I don’t need him to.
We built our own home — messy, cozy, filled with laughter.
And last month, I found out I was pregnant.
Our child will never see their mother belittled in someone else’s house. I made sure of that.
