When I lost my job, I leaned on my husband, Gregor, trusting that he’d support me until I found another.
At first, he seemed understanding,
but his patience wore thin quickly.
He began making snide comments about being the sole breadwinner,
and I could feel the warmth of our marriage slipping away.
Still, I held on, believing we were a team.
Months later, Gregor threw himself a lavish birthday party, despite complaining about finances.
Surrounded by family, friends, and colleagues, the night seemed perfect—until he stood up for a toast.
With a smirk, he joked that I was his “dependent,”
that he’d have “kicked me out long ago if I wasn’t so obedient.”
The room went silent as humiliation burned through me.
But I refused to let him reduce me to a punchline.
I stood, calm and steady, and reminded everyone that the celebration was funded by my savings, not his.
Gasps echoed as Gregor’s smile faded, and I revealed I’d seen the transfer myself. He had mocked me with my own money.
I ended the toast with a smile of my own: “I think I’ll keep my money—and my dignity.”
Then I walked out, leaving Gregor to figure out how to pay the bill. That night,
I packed my bags and left for my mother’s house, vowing never to stay in a toxic marriage again.